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Graduate School Anxiety is NORMAL.

"Many students wage a fierce battle with self doubt throughout the application process. Still it is easy to see why this happens. Many students compare themselves to this imaginary perfect applicant and feel despondent upon realizing that they dont measure up in all respects. Reality does not usually justify this concern because no application have everything going their way like the fantasy applicant does. You need some measure of self confidence that you can do it. Without this confidence most students wont even begin the process of applying to graduate school. Someone's low estimation of your chances of getting into a graduate program may be based on the assumption that you will approach the application process the way that most students do. If this were true, then perhaps your chances of getting in would be slim."-- Dave G. Mumby

How can I be more confident? Maybe reread my resume. Talk to people who love and adore me. Trust God for the best outcomes.

How can I set myself apart? I have unique and interesting work experiences. I can make that work and relevant in the classroom.

How can I gather my personal fan club?

Why is this the only thing I think about these days?

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