I had a lengthy discussion last night with a recent acquaintance about the ills of drugs and alcohol. This is a person I've never met, but have some conversation with over the past week. As usual, I argued against what I intuitively feel and what I've been socialized to feel (intuition and socialization are in sync fortunately): i.e. that drugs and alcohol are not that bad, that they are in fact social lubricants that make sociability easier. Shilli, who seems to enjoy arguments as much as I do (which makes him a commodity to be sure), introduced the concept of dignity as an issue to consider. His argument: Alcohol undermines an individual's self dignity by allowing her to loose her inhibitions and good common sense. He suggested that alcohol leads to further ills including rape, divorce, car crashes, violence. The merits of this second point are questionable because I think there are more cases of casual drinking without any harmful effects, than there are cases of serious...
I began writing as an outlet for narcissism but found that blogging was more about the people in my world than about me. I am at my core a writer and educator with interests in community- building, social justice, markets, philanthropy, and academia. I am forging a path with your Dad, who I got to know mostly through the comments section of this blog. This is my story, and I'm happy to share it with you, my daughter.