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I love that you see what's better than what I see, when I reach for the Pepperidge Farm milano cookies, you reach for the the Distinctive Chocolate Cookie Collection (the box of assorted cookies).

I love that you sing.

I love that Ned is no competition for me.

I love that you drew me in hijab.

Alhamdullilah. Alhamdullilah. Alhamdullilah.

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